Tuesday, January 3, 2017

The Natural Hair Movement:What Black Men Think About Natural Hair







The Natural Hair Movement: 
What Black Men Think About Natural Hair


 Yes I'm Natural! Today we are talking Natural hair, preferably what some of the black men think about women and natural hair. I believe there are two different kinds of naturals. There is the natural who wears her hair in its natural state. There is also, the natural who alters her hair chemically. I am the natural who likes to wear my hair in its natural state, followed by twist outs, high puffs, protective styles: Sew ins, half wigs, braids etc...and every now and then, I decide to treat myself and my natural hair to a silk press; that may last only a few days due to the humidity lol, in which I will save that story for another days post. Some women choose the protective styling route for hair growth purposes and easiest to manage while in school, work and hectic life schedules. 
Firstly, I am in no way singling out every black man I am only speaking from my experience of men I've dated, friendships and even random strangers. I've had men compliment me on my natural hair, ask to touch my hair or is it real; and the best of all, touch it without my permission! Anyone who knows me knows, I am always honest when it comes to my natural hair or my protective styles; and have no issue with any of the questions presented to me. Some men go as far as only dating, women who don't wear weaves, and or prefer them with straightened hair. It makes me and my natural hair no difference, because I live my life, not looking to be accepted by anyone. I appreciate the men who allow me to express myself creatively, without any restraints.
 If there is ever a Black man who says to me, how I wear my hair is a problem, well that's just too bad! I am all about embracing my natural hair and different ways I can express it. I believe all women should embrace their natural hair, in which I also plan to wear my natural hair out more this year. Unfortunately, we live in world where there will be men who love natural hair and men who dislike natural hair. I think some men are on the fence about Natural hair and weaves, because of the perception the world gives off in magazines, or on television about how real beauty should look. silky straight! All forms of natural hair should be accepted whether its kinky or straight.

Being natural is a life style and a journey no one will truly understand. Every journey has a different story behind it. It helps us shape into our beings and open the doors for other journeys to progress; such as Self Love, Purpose and confidence. The natural hair movement is dominating right now. Do not be afraid to be authentic, be free and be natural!
 -Kishari

Quotes of the Day!
"Find the Confidence to embrace what you have, just as you are." -Kishari

"I was shy, but it came out in my big personality. My turning point was when I let my hair go naturally."- Tracee Ellis Ross











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