Stop Settling for Less: Why am I considered too picky for not settling for less?

Stop Settling for Less:

Why am I considered too picky for not settling for less?

Why do people settle for less? The truth is, it may be multiple reasons; but that doesn't mean you have to. The reason I stop settling for less is because I know I don't have to. When I tell people I have been single for years and date occasionally. The questions some people may ask are, Why have you been single for so long but still manage to have a dating life? Why do you have deal breakers? You are too picky! I believe I deserve better than some of the men I have come across. This is not to say they were not good men, it is only to say we may have been on two different levels in life; mutual decisions or maybe we weren't compatible enough, in reference to chemistry, lifestyle choices, personalities, life goals, timing, and so much more.

Now I ask, why am I considered too picky for not settling for less? I am not finding something wrong with everyone I date or come in contact with; it is only because I know that God has someone special just for me. When you date with a purpose, you develop a mindset for something more. When you develop a settling mindset, less becomes normal to you. You don't care if you have less; you set no boundaries or set of standards for yourself or developing relationships.  

The real question some of us need to ask ourselves are, why don't you feel like you deserve better? I'm not implying that people should break up with their significant others, spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend etc....  I am only saying you should evaluate your circle and how they will effect your life long term. You are allowed to choose what you deserve and the people you allow in your life. You are not considered too picky for not settling for less; you're one who believes in self value and a purposeful life. The only limits to life are the ones you create!

-Kishari

Quote of the Day!

"Let go of what you're use to and wait for what you deserve."-Unknown

Mistakes are how we learn our lessons:

Don't regret not one thing!

Every day you make a choice! The only way we can truly grow as people and learn from our mistakes; is by making the same mistake more than once. You might not realize the mistakes you make all at once; but once you start to grow as a person, you start to see a pattern of your wrong doings.  When you can view your life from your own stand point, great things start to happen for your thought process. When your thought process has transformed, you see yourself, life and the people around you from a different perspective.

In learning from our mistakes, we learn our lessons. As we learn our lesson from one mistake, we continue to make other mistakes in the process. I know you’re probably thinking, “I can’t win for losing.” Hey, that’s life and that’s something you must accept and deal with so you can make the necessary changes in your life. Life is about making mistakes, and all we can do as the days go by; is continue to do our best. Sometimes we will get something right, and at the same time something else may come tumbling down; and we go flat line as if it’s the end of the world. I know because I do it! Sometimes I place too much emphasis on a day, as my mom would say. In reality its just on day. We have so much to gain and learn from the days ahead of us. At the end of the day, I know and you know it’s not the end of the world; if something does not go our way. Life will go on and so will you!

Peace & Love, Kishari

Quote of the Day!

“Don’t regret not one thing, Just let life flow where it should.” -Kishari