Stop Settling for Less:
Why am I considered too picky for not settling for less?
Why do people settle for less? The truth is, it may be multiple reasons; but that doesn't mean you have to. The reason I stop settling for less is because I know I don't have to. When I tell people I have been single for years and date occasionally. The questions some people may ask are, Why have you been single for so long but still manage to have a dating life? Why do you have deal breakers? You are too picky! I believe I deserve better than some of the men I have come across. This is not to say they were not good men, it is only to say we may have been on two different levels in life; mutual decisions or maybe we weren't compatible enough, in reference to chemistry, lifestyle choices, personalities, life goals, timing, and so much more.
Now I ask, why am I considered too picky for not settling for less? I am not finding something wrong with everyone I date or come in contact with; it is only because I know that God has someone special just for me. When you date with a purpose, you develop a mindset for something more. When you develop a settling mindset, less becomes normal to you. You don't care if you have less; you set no boundaries or set of standards for yourself or developing relationships.
The real question some of us need to ask ourselves are, why don't you feel like you deserve better? I'm not implying that people should break up with their significant others, spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend etc.... I am only saying you should evaluate your circle and how they will effect your life long term. You are allowed to choose what you deserve and the people you allow in your life. You are not considered too picky for not settling for less; you're one who believes in self value and a purposeful life. The only limits to life are the ones you create!
-Kishari
Quote of the Day!
"Let go of what you're use to and wait for what you deserve."-Unknown
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