Lessons I am Learning in my 20's

Lessons I am Learning in my 20's

As we are growing within ourselves. Some of us are blessed enough to have loving parent's, to get us through childhood and has helped us transition into adulthood. You go out into the world with  perspective from your parents and yourself. As you go through life  there are some things you have to learn on your own. Thing that no parent can teach you and must experience for yourself. Your life is your responsibility and it is up to you to make something great of it. What better way to start learning lessons, than in your 20's. It is the start of your highest and lowest moments.

We will succeed and fail; we will also make mistakes. The good part about life is that even though we make mistakes, we also get a chance to make it right with God first and ourselves.
"Everybody has problems and everybody has bad times. Do we sacrifice the good times because of them? -Unknown
We must certainly do not! We continue to move forward and do our best and give our best self to the world just as we are. Here is just a few things I have learned and still learning in my 20's.


1. Do your best Now!!!

I cant express the importance of this statement enough. To be honest I wish I could of done some things differently in my life; but hey everything happens for a reason. I have learned that the Journey may have started off rocky but that doesn't mean it has to continue on that path. We have the opportunity yo do your best right now, without God holding it against us. How amazing is that! As my mom would say, Embrace the new, Enjoy the journey and Trust the process.

2. Do the things that matter to you.

It seemed like in my early 20's I wanted to do and have the things everyone else had; but now I want to do and have the things Kishari wants. You have to do the things that matter to you when it comes to your future, career, happiness, friendships, love life, family etc... If it matters to you do it! live for yourself and not for the opinions of others.

3. Appreciating the fact that I don't have all the answers.

If you had all the answers to life how will you enjoy it? How will you learn? How will you grow? You have to relax and allow life to flow naturally, trust me I know! When you try to have total control over your life, it will get out of control. You have to know and understand some things are just not within your control. Stop Over thinking!

4. Embracing my Singleness.

I've been single for awhile and to be honest I don't give the fact that I'm still single too much energy anymore. I just take this time being single to better myself as a woman; and to do the things that matter to me. When I run into the right one, at the right time in both of our lives ;will be the time. Until then I am in no rush.

5. Searching for Clarity.

6. Becoming self-sufficient.

7. Allowing myself to feel in the moment.

8. Embracing second chances from God.

9. Taking losses and viewing them as blessings.

10. Self Love Journey.

11. Rushing the process before it's time.

12. Becoming a Go Getter.

13. Being patient with myself.

14. Finding your Perspective on life.

15. Living your life through the circumstances.

16. Staying Positive in a negative situation.

17. Forgiving yourself and others.

18. Feeling blessed to have a Purpose.

19. Humbling myself.


Quote of the Day!
" You may have been searching for something or someone to tell you everything will be alright. Look within your heart and you will be just fine. - Iyanla Vanzant

Should you be doing more?

Should you be doing more?

We are constantly reminded daily by this little voice in our heads, that we should be doing more; to better ourselves and circumstances. Sometimes I feel like I am doing more than expected of me and sometimes I feel like I should be doing more. The truth is, we should be doing more. Everyday is an opportunity to better ourselves in that day itself. My mom once said to me, "Kishari, you place too much emphasis on a day." I didn't really give it much thought until I was overly obsessing about the amount of work and errands I needed to complete in a day. The problem was I thought I needed to complete everything in one day, or it wouldn't get done. I was trying to do more but the more I was doing, was costing me my peace of mind.

If you find that you should be doing more, than nine times out of ten you should. There is always room to grow in every area of your life; and at the same time you have to allow things to flow naturally. At times you are doing all that you can and other times, there is only so much you can do in any given situation. I have learned over the years, the key to doing more is staying within your control and allowing God to take care of the things out of your control. We will not always complete every task in a day and we will not know all the answers in life but we can do our best. I am hopeful for the future, that will allow for me to do a little more each day. 

Quote of the Day!

"I'm always doing that which I can't do, in order that I may learn how to do it."- Pablo Picasso