Have you ever been in love before? To the point you have lost consciousness of your total being. Unaware of others, your surroundings or anything that can possibly take you away from that love interest. You're unconscious to the fact, that your frame of mind is stagnant! Its somewhere in an in between place, lost through time and space. Sometimes we see, sometimes we can't see anything past that particular person. Love gives us what we need, and we give it the same in return; on separate levels of measurements. I know what your asking yourself, "What kind of mentality is that to have; or way is that feel about yourself?" The truth is, we don't start growing until we start experiencing; in doing so, will prepare us for the journey ahead of us.
If I was asked today, if I would rather have loved or lost, I will never permit myself to lose what I once loved. After all, I once loved that person. That love, it set the tone for the love found. The very thing that placed me in the position to love, grow, understand and cherish love itself; is something that can never be replaced. Maybe that love lost was sometimes a distraction, painful, miserable, inconsistent. Then again, maybe it was even comfortable, once happy; bring you joy, patience and humbled. Everything in life has its own time, we just have to know when it's our time to let go and move forward.We will never forget, but the spirit will place us directly in the position; to grow beyond what's expected of us from ourselves and others. We must never miss a step in life or think that its okay to skip a step. Every step is vital. That's why there is a process put in place, to make sure that we understand the decisions we made and why we go through certain things. I believe that we are conscious enough to know our experiences in life were not always the best; and at the same time it wasn't always the worst.
Find a way to appreciate the love lost. Think about everything it has given you? what you have learned from that journey? What you can take into the next lesson with you? Use this opportunity as a stepping stone for personal growth and fulfilment. Sometimes we find our way back to the love we lost, and sometimes it was meant for us to discover something new. Either way, If it wasn't for the love that was lost, you would never really truly appreciate the love that is found. We take what we have learned and we apply it to our lives for the betterment of self; and every aspect of our lives.
-Kishari
Quote of the Day!
"We lose ourselves in the things we love. we find ourselves there too."-Kristin Martz